Sexual Healing

Female viagra. Yes ladies and gentlemen, step right up and join the new sexual revolution. History shows us it always starts with a pill!

Sorry ladies, this pill does not guarantee an orgasm. What it apparently does is increase sexual desire. Apparently there is a group of women out there with very low sex drives. The drug companies gave it a name that they shortened to HSDD and then they set out to find a cure. What they managed to come up with is Flibanserin,. Ironically a decidedly unsexy name. I've never had a low sex drive but there are women that have this problem. Since becoming a member of the "I don't have to worry about getting pregnant anymore club" I have heard from other female members who have seen a decline in their desire to engage in sex. Its a lack of hormones thing that effects some women in that particular way. So do we need this pill?

I can't help but think this pill was developed by a man. The pill makes a woman desire sex more. Chalk that up to a win for the guys. It means more sex for them! If they really wanted to help women they would have developed a pill that guarantees an orgasm. So we're still left needing a guy with a good pair of hands and the responsibility of showing them how to use those hands.

For women, the biggest sexual organ is their brain. The turn on starts up top and works its way down. Having a pill that could quiet our overworked organ would be a plus. Leave all the good thoughts and tell the rest to STFU! For me personally I would like to gag the voice in my head that says"Um, hey you over there having fun, how does that love handle look when you're in that position?!" Forget gagging it, I want it waterboarded and then sliced up by Dexter. He only kills other killers and this voice is a mood killer. But alas, no such pill. Maybe we need more female scientists.

So for now I think this pill is really only for a specific group of women and hopefully it will have a positive effect for them. As to the rest of us I think we need to work with what we already have. Maybe a nice relaxing glass of wine. Openness about your sexual needs with your partner because he cannot read your mind no matter how hard you concentrate. Of course I can hear that voice in my head saying "Thats all fine, but you can't shut me up!" Well actually I can. I can do extra ab work but better than that I can remember that after almost thirty years my partner still wants some!